Hey every one who reads this blog.... or even has time to blog surf. Anyways so my dearest husband, who thank goodness doesn't check the blog often or he would kill me for doing this, is having a birthday this month. Now it isn't just any birthday, but his big 30th one. Now I have tired to convince him to have a party but he is so against it. So I am going to need some help on what to do for him. Do I go against his wishes and throw him a party or do I stick to my promise and just play it low key? I am at a loss here everyone. I love to have big parties and do big things for birthdays, especially the really big ones like 30. So if anyone out there has some neat or creative ideas on what to do for my dear husband please comment. His birthday is on the 28th of January. Thanks everyone and I hope all is great in your neck of the woods.
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For my Doug's big 30 I invited a ton of his friends, made appetizers and cake, and we all hung out. The key was that my Doug didn't know I had invited everyone and I had them all there in the apartment before Doug got home. He was pleasantly surprised when he came home. He didn't mind it at all in the end.
Oh that's hard!! I think he would appreciate it in the long run and actually have fun!! Good luck! :)
I think Trevor and Doug are very similar and don't like to make things a big deal. Trevor always had harvest during his birthday so it was just another day at work. My birthday is a national holiday a big deal so I like to do things and parties. I always want to do big things for him too but he likes it low key. Luckily I have a cuple years til 30 but I think it is worth it to go against his wishes for big b-days like 30 and 40. But I think you can may low key a big deal too. So both can be happy
I wouldn't go against his wishes. I wouldn't want him to remember he'd had a party on his 30th he didn't want. I'm pretty sure he says what he means. He didn't say one thing and cross his fingers that you read between the lines...
However, get family to come and be there when he gets home. He can't get mad at family!!!
You love him and know him best. You will do wonderfully!
Putz...respect his wishes...think of something fun instead for the two of you. You could take him on a safari and he could hunt wild game (similar to patch adams) or something easy but fun that the two of you can do. Otherwise he may feel more alienated than appreciative. Remember this is free advice. that's all it's worth.
your bro, crisco
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